Come and Go

People come and go in your life, but the right ones will always stay. People may come in your life for small time or for long depending on the destiny. Small time may be an hour, a day, few months, while long may be an year or few years. It is said that, if you are friends to someone for more than 7 years, you become friends forever.

My father always say "aao to welcome, jao to bhid kam". It is said in terms of our house/place. I find it applicable in life as well. We should invite anyone who comes in our lives and let go of people who wanna leave us. Don't hold on to anyone or anything. Believe me, they were there for that time period and now they are not destined anymore. Let go off people or things that are gone. Move on to new places, people, culture and things. It is often said that, we should not be materialistic, we should not hold on to things. Well, I believe it's not just materials that we should let go, it is people as well. I am not saying that things are equivalent to people, what I am saying is we should be ready to let go whatever it is. 

I always say "Shit happens, be ready for that". It is true, shit happens all the time, it's part and parcel of life. Example: You might have been using a cell phone for a long time, it becomes your life. To see it go away, is really painful but it happens and you should be ready for it. Another scenario, you might have a pet-a dog and it dies. I understand it's the most painful thing in your life, but it happens. Don't hold on to it, let it go. let it rest in peace and you be in peace as well. Just understand that it was in your life for that time period and move on. 

Well, this does not mean that life is all about leaving people and things. Enjoy people in your life while they are. Whoever you meet has a certain part in your life. let them leave their mark in life book. You can always revisit those pages and cherish the time you spent together. Go to malls and buy stuff, don't think too much. Buy it, if it gives you happiness. Cherish little things in life.

Now don't be confused. Enjoy everyone and everything in your life at the moment. If they are there, it's for a reason and if they are not, that's also for a reason. Simple.