Saturday 21 January 2017

Institutionalized

We may not even know that we have been institutionalized. It seems a big word; let me provide you the meaning of it: established in practice or custom.

We live a life of habit. Monday to Sunday, Morning to Night, our schedule is same. We are habitual of this routine. We become comfortable with this routine after sometime. We may even become completely different person and may not know. For example: a blind person, once start seeing, may become so habitual of it that he may even forget that he was blind once. This is called as adaptation. We adapt ourselves to every situation and after some time, it becomes normal. The same rule applies for everyone starting from a kid to senior, human to nature, killer to doctor. A person may become habitual of a prison that he never wants to leave it, no matter how hard the prison is. If you see an IT person, they know only one thing and they kept doing that for their entire life. They are habitual.

Time Lapsed Life
The biggest advantage of becoming institutionalized is that it becomes easy to live. You don’t have to worry about anything, just live the same life every day. You can observe such instances in movies such as Ranbir Kapoor’s Tamasha.
Well on the other hand, disadvantage is that it gets boring. Way too much boring. It’s the same schedule every day. It becomes worse when you work on the same task every day, see similar faces, and eat same thing. Too much shame.


It is advised that you should change your schedule once in a while to make your life healthier and happier. Try to make simple changes such as if you are going home at 4 o clock daily, try to go late one day. Talk to a new person one day, take a break from work. Do something different for yourself, don’t go and jump off a cliff for adventure, just do something different. Try something different today and comment if you can. 

Thursday 5 January 2017

Keep Moving


So the year has been bad for you. You have suffered Personal as well as financial loss, but what does this means. You should stop and repent. I say yes, stop for a moment. Understand what has happened, learn from it. Get up and start moving. You have to keep moving, because once you stop, you stop the flow of energy and become useless. So, just Keep moving, you might be slow, but you got to keep moving. I can quote 2 recent examples of how I did it. These are simple scenarios. 

In the first, I was going office and not sure what I was thinking, I accidentally got down one stop earlier than mine. I was worried, what did I do and why. That's ok, that was a stopping moment. Then I took another train and reached my stop. 
Another day, I was running up the escalator and fell down. I was bleeding, so I took a second and then again escalated again. No matter what happened in both the scenarios, I stopped and then I started moving again. You have to do the same. 

Note: I have taken simple, very simple scenarios. I can quote examples of personal loss, heart broke, financial loss and many more. There have been scenarios when I cried, then I stopped for some time to regain my energy and finally I get back in action. Long story short, you may fail at times but that’s not the end of life. Take some time, get up and start moving. Sometimes, you may need help of others, take that help. There is no wrong in taking help, but make sure that you don’t become dependable on anyone because that’s even worse. It may lead you to another stroke.

So, fail, stop and then start moving again. 
Happy New Year.